“I believe that we are in a place where we can continue to be supportive and have a healthy but limited attachment. I believe that this could only have occurred because of the wonderful work you do and I wanted to affirm your contribution to the quality of both of our lives.” - Dr. B., Orange County
“I'd suspect that, in many cases, your work is thankless, at least overtly. i shan't speak for us both, but strongly believe your patience and steady guidance led to a more acceptable agreement, and minimized acrimony. grateful. “ -E.N., Tustin
“Pam, I love your heart and your desire to resolve and not divide. I agree divorce is ugly and you were a ray of sunshine in mine. Keep up the good work, the world needs more people like you.” — S.C., Newport Beach
“People come into our lives and we never know how we or they are going to affect us, even if it’s through a small gesture. I am so proud of you. This article is well=deserved” - S.M. Newport Beach
"Ms. Shaffer has always displayed highly professional, courteous and compassionate demeanor in the course of the extremely unpleasant legal proceedings surrounding my divorce. She has promptly accessible, dependable, precise in her attention to detail, knowledgeable about the intricacies of family law in California and has exhibited good common sense." -- Dr. H., Los Angeles
"Thank you for all your professional help and guidance. It allowed us to stay focused on our beautiful daughter and her best interests, which is the most important thing. I feel so lucky and blessed that our paths crossed, which allowed our divorce to be a drama and hardship-free experience. (My wife) and I will always be grateful for that. Our goal now is to be supportive parents and friends, and to give our daughter all the tools and support she needs to be the most beautiful, happy, educated and successful little girl in our world. Things could have been so different and I thank you again for guiding us through a difficult transition - I feel like that we all came out on top." -- R, Laguna Beach
"As an ethical attorney who wanted the best for our clients: a fair resolution , I did truly appreciate that you shared my beliefs. I am not kidding when I say that you are the first honest, ethical family law attorney whom I have met in 26 years of practice." -- R.L., Esq., San Diego
"I just wanted to thank you for your work and conscientiousness. I never felt like I had to worry about my divorce. You made the events of the past year a little more bearable." M, Costa Mesa
"I am deeply indebted to you. Our conversation was a true eye-opener. Your advice was insightful and even-handed. Your insights have helped me and my family immeasurably. " -- P, Laguna Beach
"One more time .. Hallelujah! I think you know by now how much I appreciate all you've done for my wife and me. This makes the outlook for the rest of my life so very positive! Rest assured that I've been singing your praises from the outset and I insist you use me as a reference whenever possible." -- D. Laguna Niguel
"Pam has been a great resource for my clients when they've needed solid, experienced advice about a family law matter. She's quick to respond, logical in her approach, and takes the client's interests to heart. I highly recommend her services." -- B, Esq., Tustin